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Rescuing Love From the Grey

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On Valentine’s Day, America reached an all-time low in popular culture perversion with the release of the pornographic, sadomasochistic movie Fifty Shades of Grey. Perhaps it serves as a prophetic picture of the ever-deepening fog surrounding modern conceptions of love and romance. God never intended to leave us groping in the murky shadows of grey, especially when it comes to such critical issues as love, sex and romance.

I have Christian friends who believe the “spiritually mature” actually live in the sophisticated, enlightened world of grey. Black and white thinking, the kind that draws clear lines between good and evil, is really a sign of haughtiness and narrow-mindedness. We all know, they argue, that the real world is mostly painted with various shades of grey. The general conclusion is something like this – “So shut up and quit judging people. Just love everyone. It might be right for them. We are all on our own journey.” Ad nauseam.

While life certainly has some grey hues, God has none! He is clothed in unapproachable light (I Timothy 6:16). He has no shadows (James 1:17); no grey, contour less lines. He is light and in Him is no darkness (I John 1:5).

Where God has chosen to speak, there remains no darkness.

The good news is that God has a lot to say about true LOVE.

The Apostle Paul shines God’s clear light on LOVE  in I Corinthians 13, a chapter that has become well known as “The Love Chapter.”

I want us to focus specifically on verse 7:

Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
I Corinthians 13:7, ESV

I love the rendering in the Amplified version: Love bears up under anything and everything that comes, is ever ready to believe the best of every person, its hopes are fade less under all circumstances, and it endures everything [without weakening].

First of all, notice that all four of the main verbs in this verse are present tense, meaning these qualities should become part of our lifestyle.

In addition, notice the repetition of the phrase “all things.” These four characteristics of what I am calling “Daring Love” cover every situation or circumstance we will encounter in life.

And the best news of all is that LOVE, real love, reigns victorious over every situation.

In the days to come, we’ll take a look at each of these phrases in an effort to pull LOVE from the world’s fifty shades of grey.

  1. Frank Haight
    February 20th, 2015 at 17:05 | #1

    Great article Ron. Love to read these and hear from you. Auntie Ann and Uncle Frank.

  2. February 20th, 2015 at 18:33 | #2

    @Frank Haight
    Love my Aunt and Uncle!!!!!

  3. Kerry Drake
    February 21st, 2015 at 15:58 | #3

    Ad-nausiating is more like it!

  4. Margo
    February 23rd, 2015 at 14:32 | #4

    In an effort to appease sin, grey areas have clouded over truth when it comes to what love and commitment means. Great article shining the light on an ever increasing confused world.

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